Support yourselves with Inner development to be powerful.

We have gaps in our personality to look outside ourselves for love, support, approval, survival, and security. Moreover, we do not support ourselves by being authentic or having a good boundary function. Learning how to support yourselves can help fill these gaps and foster personal growth.

We don’t go beyond the fear of annoying people or people who turn away from us. We don’t like ourselves for being ourselves. However, we are going to have to learn exactly that. These are the things we will have to face as adults. Explore this further in zelfbewustzijn en zelfreflectie.

You need to know how to take care of yourself.

Do you know how to support yourselves and live a healthy life?

Be authentic and lose your fear of appearing honest. Be assertive, and then a narcissist will run the other way. They know they can’t manipulate you, abuse you, and drain you of your energy and resources.

Most importantly, you need to lose your fear and hatred of narcissists. You still have a robust emotional burden from them. If you continue to hold resentment and fear for them, you are mistaken. You think you are saying no to a narcissist who comes into your life. Explore this further in grenzen en innerlijke veiligheid.

You’re actually saying a big, big YES. Whatever vibrates inside you, for good or bad, is undoubtedly the emotional magnet. This magnet will bring more of that into your life. You have to do the inner shift work. It’s not about being angry and resentful. Do not think you’re pushing them away with that.

No, that means you’re going to bring them in.

Your mind will connect you to the exact match for your vibrating within yourself. All that worrying and looking out for narcissists actually means you’re still repeating the same patterns. You are not supporting yourselves. For another English-language reflection on recurring threat and childhood experiences, read Healing from Childhood Trauma: the “wolf hunting” metaphor. Treat the image as a starting point for reflection rather than an explanation of every difficult relationship.

So, what is this about? This is about accepting that narcissists exist.

I have accepted that. You could meet a narcissist tomorrow and not be afraid. And you have taken on your development mission. You have pursued your inner development to be powerful yourself. If you feel powerful yourself, you don’t need compliments, love-bombing, and mindgames. Explore this further in zelfzorg en solidariteit.

It is a continuous work to grow, and step by step. Use the search function on “narcisme.blog” with the words: method, recovery, inner to overcome your fear. Go to our tools in the menu. Go to the extension of Google Translate to read the articles in your language.

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Toxic people and their organizations cause great damage to society. Everyone is subject to it and our society is increasingly moving towards even more narcissistic anti-democratic tendencies. That’s why we give you the growth tasks for free. They are full of self-care tips, self-healing tips and options for trauma processing so that you have more opportunities.

Thank you so much for your support!

For further reading on self-awareness and relationships: ** How to Be the Love You Seek by Nicole LePera (English e-book).

You can translate all the text: Are you taking a step forward today with a growth task?

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