In this video, I’m going to explain why it’s not our DIFFERENCES but, actually, our SIMILARITIES that bring us together.
I know this title is judgmental or even offend some people. “How on earth can you compare me to a narcissist – by putting me on the same coin?” Is there a relation between narcissist and co-dependent?
The public, along with many experts and therapists, believe that differences between narcissists and their targets bring them together. Yes, yes and yes – on the surface that theory appears to be 100% correct. But, I believe “Takers gravitate to givers,” “opposites attract” are only a tiny part of the truth. It is only looking at the surface.
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There is something much deeper going on as to why co-dependents and narcissists attract.
By understanding this vital concept, you will be capable of recognizing the parts of yourself. These parts make you a target for narcissists. This comprehension helps you move another step closer to ending the cycle of abuse. You will also tackle dissatisfying relationships in your life.
My intention with videos like this is to help you. I aim to help you get to the truth and heal your life. This video is about deeply understanding the similarities co-dependents share with narcissists.
The similarities which put both parties on the same coin.
This truth is not about “blaming and shaming.” It only triggers our ego into more resentment. The ego, of course, loves this. “Go on, go on feed me MORE pain!”, but instead in ways that open up our bodies, minds, and hearts with big “Ah-ha” awareness.
Because it is those “Oh my goodness” moments which make all the difference.
Imagine that the co-dependent/narcissistic relationship is the “light” and the “dark” side of a coin. We know there are differences. Still, I want to grant you the understanding of what the currency really is. That understanding is vital.
It’s vital because it lets you know what is necessary to never be half of that coin again. But before I do, let’s look at the differences between the two sides. The highest calling is healing and liberation from the inner wounds.
There is no more powerful dynamic to achieve that than in an intimate relationship. If one partner applies authentic self-responsibility and evolves, and the other doesn’t, the evolving partner changes. They never need to experience a relationship like that again. They will certainly not stay in that relationship dynamic.
That relationship was the stepping stone necessary to go to the next level. I hope you made it this far.
Hold your heart open enough to feel the truth.
I hope you are connecting to what you really need to do to get well. Imagine how incredible your life will be when you do.
You may have to read this article several times. This is necessary to really absorb it. If so, I urge you to do so.
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