Hidden narcissists are among the smoothest and most dangerous because they are the hardest to detect! If you don’t take the time to get to know someone, you don’t know if he is a narcissist. Because they can do their activities without blowing the whistle.
These are the ones that slip through the racks. They pack you in, intelligent and knowledgeable. Read more: narcisme begrijpen.
Suppose you are still unconsciously giving away power. In that case, even if things are a little off, your brain will adjust. It will organize around the unhealed inner parts of yourself. We make excuses for why you shouldn’t listen to yourself or stand behind them.
But when you heal the inner traumas, you become less susceptible and addicted to a narcissist. You become desensitized to any narcissist’s deception. This applies whether the narcissist is covert or otherwise.
You take the time to get to know someone, be it romantic, business, or even friendly.
And you don’t let people fully into your heart, life, body, and bed at once. You also keep them out of your bank account. You also keep them out of your resources until you’ve taken the time to get to know them. Read more: grenzen en innerlijke veiligheid.
And then when “things” come up that are questionable, you get right to the point. You question this person, calmly and clearly, with no guilt or r morse. You need accountability, honesty, and proof about whom they claim to be. So to get to know someone like he really is, you have to take your time.
If you don’t get the validation, truth, and solidity you need, don’t move on. Let him go and move on.
So the real questions here are:
Are you willing to take the time to get to know someone?
Can you stand up and speak without the fear of consequences if necessary to get to know someone? Read more: zelfbewustzijn en zelfreflectie.
Can you say “no more” and leave this person without trying to fix dubious deals? Furthermore, can you change them and hope questionable deals work?
These are the actual questions and criteria. They will make you totally desensitized to any narcissist. This applies no matter how secretive they are.
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