If you feel in the short term love there is a good chance you meet a beautiful narcissist.

The question on so many people’s lips is:

“How do I know when I am ready to date again?”

After narcissistic abuse, naturally, you may feel terrified about putting yourself out there.

Why wouldn’t you?



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There is no way KNOWN any of us ever want to run the risk of being with another narcissist.

Even after doing a lot of inner work, you may not be 100% sure that you are ready.

Maybe you are not sure HOW to get ready.

Maybe it’s years since you dated, or perhaps you never even really dated and don’t know how to do it successfully.

I certainly didn’t until I learnt how to!

Contemplating whether or not you are ready to date may bring up all sorts of questions, such as:

Is it when I am no longer feeling the trauma?

Is it when I am over the previous lover?

Is it when I believe I know enough about narcissists never to get with another one again?

Even when I think I am ready, how on earth am I going to keep myself narc proof?

How on earth are you going to keep yourself being positive, healthy and sane enough to keep going until I meet the right person?

I want to cut through all the confusion for you to get clear on what it looks like to date again.


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I’d love to help you achieve to date in confidence and truth.

You want to be able to meet awesome healthy people!

The first step is to sign up to the English 16-day free course, which includes a ton of free resources, as well as a workshop with Melanie.

On the workshop and in the NARP program, you will experience the subconscious reprogramming super-tool Quanta Freedom Healing.

Quantum Freedom Healing fast-tracks healing from abuse more than anything else I know.

You find the link at the end of the page.

And, as always, I look forward to having a discussion with you below about this topic!

I do hope this video has helped.

If you know, it’s time to get started on the realising and healing of your painful Inner Love Code,

I can help you powerfully with your first step to generating a beloved mate.

Click the link to the Narp program or if you are only Dutch-speaking to the 21 days program at the end of the page.

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As always, I am much looking forward to answering your comments and questions below.

Questions and comments? I love to answer.

Love xx.


Annemie Persyn Declercq.


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