It’s as if everything you do, think or see reminds you of it.
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Sometimes bittersweet memories come to you, and other times it feels incredibly traumatic. You even get panic attacks, like shards of ice scorching through your veins. Do you still have those obsessive thoughts about the narcissist and your toxic relationship with him?
Why do you feel like your energy is being sucked in by this toxic relationship overwhelming you?
Why does it feel so hard to have the energy, inspiration, hope and happiness? How long will it be so difficult to just get on with your life, move on and LIVE your life? Probably because those obsessive thoughts about the narcissist are self-sabotage and remember you over and over on the toxic relationship..
Yes, you may have physically detached. Or you want to break away from it. But emotionally, it feels almost impossible to achieve because obsessive thoughts of the narcissist are one of the symptoms of PTSD.
Many people do not realize until it happens to them that a toxic relationship often affect your life, even if it is not present in your life.
Some people have experienced this phenomenon of obsessive thoughts of the narcissist even decades after the divorce.
Personally, I was shocked that even though I thought I was strong, I couldn’t go on rebuilding my life.
I was surprised to find that my old fixed meditation, motivational speeches, exercise, journaling (writing in my journal) and affirmations just weren’t enough anymore.
Even after more than a year without contact, I felt just as devastated as I did the first day I put him out. I had been emotionally robbed for several years, I had hardly existed or functioned. My hair fell out, I had to follow speech therapy to be able to speak correctly, I barely slept.
Many remedies do not address the emotional, and more importantly, psychological destruction that regularly occurs in narcissistic relationships.
This is essential to understand and combat, or you will never really be free from an abuser who severely traumatized you.
Until I had applied essential NARP remedies over a long period to the “blind” and unconscious attachments that bound me to my narcissist, I was not free. Meanwhile, it was nearly impossible to live well, breathe freely, and be successful.
With the narcissist in my life, I spent years in emotionally paralyzed pain until I cracked the “code”.
Then it took me 3 days to disconnect my obsessive thoughts from the narcissist.
By cracking the code, I could stay free. Then I could begin my incredible reconstruction. I work step-by-step FREE of the emotional, soul-wrecking entanglement that is so common in these relationships as I apply the NARP method. I even survived the parental alienation of my children. Now I have once again developed a rapport with them.
I am so happy to tell you that you don’t have to work out the profound and intricate details of this yourself to get this far in your life as my great English language source of inspiration and her team have put together a very utterly free eBook entitled “Detach From a Narcissist and Get Your Soul Back – Effective Strategies For” No “and” Adapted Contact, “Paranormal Paranormal Paranormal Recovery”.
This will allow you to get out of the emotional, energetic, psychic clutches of a narcissist. I know you need this! Many of my acquaintances in the NARP and VKoN community have all used it and still use it to do!
Because once you take back your soul and power, you are FREE from obsessive thoughts of the narcissist.
Really free … emotional … That means you feel beautiful, clear. Moreover, you get space and clarity within yourself to allow feelings of happiness, purpose, love, inspiration and creativity to return.
Melanie explains the intensive principles and ways to heal psychological-emotional attachments (and addictions) in her free eBook available for you today.
This will also help you prepare for the deep concepts and methods that Melanie wants to share with you in the Masterclass. (a global online workshop)
Melanie’s FREE ebook for you is your bonus when you register for our upcoming Masterclass.
This is a on-line Global Healing workshop for anyone suffering abuse from a spouse, partner, family member, friend, boss, colleague or other individual.
This event is relevant for you, no matter your gender or age, how long ago you separated from this person, and even if they are still in your life.
Here’s a summary of what will be covered during the workshop:
- How to become crystal clear if the person you are dealing with IS abusive.
- The #1 factor that determines if they are capable of change.
- How to know the most common personality traits in YOU that make you a target for narcissists and how to stop attracting abusers in the future.
- The 6 reasons why MOST people don’t recover from abuse (this won’t be you after this workshop!)
- How to empower yourself to deal with a narcissist in difficult situations such as co-parenting, custody battles, divorce settlements and other legal/business deals.
- How to heal from trauma symptoms such as C-PTSD, anxiety, depression and fibromyalgia and live free of them once and for all.
This event not only aims to help you break free and heal from any abusive situation, but also teaches you how to create a new and empowered life that is no longer affected by toxic people.
If you have been through this type of relationship, I can highly recommend you take part in this all-day healing event. Let Melanie teach you how to shift from being a “victim of abuse” to becoming a “Thriver from abuse” in a way that is easy to understand and immediately applicable to your life.
I know Melanie’s work and what she will be sharing is THE most cutting-edge and impactful information on healing from toxic and abusive relationships.
It is Melanie’s deep understanding of the trauma inflicted by narcissists that fuels her passion to help as many people as possible to heal. And Melanie’s wisdom and healing processes have helped so many people recover their lives and move past mere surviving to real Thriving.
This is a rare opportunity for you to learn directly from a trusted colleague who is a renowned abuse recovery expert.
Click here secure your ticket to this breakthrough abuse recovery event.
PLUS so much more…
Johan and Annemie Persyn-Declercq
P.S. Melanie has told me that she also has some exciting bonuses for you as well! After purchasing your ticket you will get immediate access to the following:
The “50 Traits of a Narcissist Checklist” so you can find out whether or not you are dealing with a narcissist.
Plus an exclusive 35-minute video training called “The 6 Mistakes That People Make When Recovering From Abuse” which provides an excellent starting point to your healing journey.
Click here to reserve your ticket and to receive all the special bonuses.
Ik zou van harte willen dat dit artikel je vandaag heeft geholpen om je hoop, vertrouwen en troost te geven dat er opluchting, kracht en wederopbouw is van de ervaring van narcistisch misbruik.
Ik weet al lang dat ons grootste goud uit de diepste duisternis wordt gedolven.
Als wat ik geschreven heb diep met je resoneert, zou ik graag zien dat je NARP bekijkt, het pad dat ikzelf en zoveel anderen hebben gevolgd om te evolueren en onszelf te bevrijden.
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Annemie Persyn Declercq