Are you In An Abusive Relationship? Learn how to free yourself.
Suggestions to help escape an abusive relationship:
Set money aside. Ask friends or family members to hold money for you.
Elicit the help of a trusted family member, friend, coworker or neighbor about your situation and develop a plan of escape.
Pack a bag and be ready to leave at a moment’s notice. Include anything that is important to you, such as identification, car title, birth certificates, social security cards, credit cards, clothes for yourself and your children, shoes, medications, banking information, money and significant phone numbers.
Keep a record of all violent incidences during the escape from an abusive relationship. Note all dates, events and threats made.
Keep any evidence of physical abuse, such as pictures.
Contact your local battered women’s shelter and find out how you could use their services, if necessary.
Hide an extra set of car keys.
Watch this video about escape from an abusive relationship
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When you know “the you” in yourself, you refuse to be determined by the emotional attacks of an abuser (star); a perpetrator (actor).
Given that person suffers from a disorder, what he or she says is not the reality.
This is the reason why he or she uses violence as if he can break “the You” in you and the reality of how the disturbed person sees it.
You draw a constant force from the knowledge that the disturbing reality and the reaction of the perpetrator is not a sustainable solution because it is not based on real truth. Not how that is the perpetrator, nor how the victim is. On the contrary, you often have a complete change of roles.
On the other hand, the perpetrator certainly does not know “the YOU” in you. He or she will blame you for everything. In his or her eyes you are the perpetrator, even though you have done everything that is humanly possible from the one you are.
On the contrary, by not going against the disturbing reality, and taking steps to avoid further violence, even if “the deranged” explains you sick, you strengthen the perpetrator. Inevitably the cycle will repeat itself.
Come to rest, meditate, walk, to find that YOU and to assume.
From here you will no longer be caught in abuse by intimate partners.
On December 19th and 20th Melanie Tonia Evans is hosting the You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse event.
This is a live on-line Premiere Global Healing workshop for anyone suffering abuse from a spouse, partner, family member, friend, boss, colleague or other individual.
This event is relevant for you, no matter your gender or age, how long ago you separated from this person, and even if they are still in your life.
Here’s a summary of what will be covered during the workshop:
- How to become crystal clear if the person you are dealing with IS abusive.
- The #1 factor that determines if they are capable of change.
- How to know the most common personality traits in YOU that make you a target for narcissists and how to stop attracting abusers in the future.
- The 6 reasons why MOST people don’t recover from abuse (this won’t be you after this workshop!)
- How to empower yourself to deal with a narcissist in difficult situations such as co-parenting, custody battles, divorce settlements and other legal/business deals.
- How to heal from trauma symptoms such as C-PTSD, anxiety, depression and fibromyalgia and live free of them once and for all.
This event not only aims to help you break free and heal from any abusive situation, but also teaches you how to create a new and empowered life that is no longer affected by toxic people.
If you have been through this type of relationship, I can highly recommend you take part in this all-day healing event. Let Melanie teach you how to shift from being a “victim of abuse” to becoming a “Thriver from abuse” in a way that is easy to understand and immediately applicable to your life.
I know Melanie’s work and what she will be sharing is THE most cutting-edge and impactful information on healing from toxic and abusive relationships.
It is Melanie’s deep understanding of the trauma inflicted by narcissists that fuels her passion to help as many people as possible to heal. And Melanie’s wisdom and healing processes have helped so many people recover their lives and move past mere surviving to real Thriving.
This is a rare opportunity for you to learn directly from a trusted colleague who is a renowned abuse recovery expert.
Click here secure your ticket to this breakthrough abuse recovery event.
PLUS so much more…
Johan and Annemie Persyn-Declercq
P.S. Melanie has told me that she also has some exciting bonuses for you as well! After purchasing your ticket you will get immediate access to the following:
The “50 Traits of a Narcissist Checklist” so you can find out whether or not you are dealing with a narcissist.
Plus an exclusive 35-minute video training called “The 6 Mistakes That People Make When Recovering From Abuse” which provides an excellent starting point to your healing journey.
Click here to reserve your ticket and to receive all the special bonuses.