When it comes to narcissists and sex, we must understand that the narcissist has no preference about who he goes to bed with.
I know exactly how hard it is to get out – despite suffering the horrific devaluing and discarding episodes. Especially when dealing with an altruistic narcissist, I remember saying “If only this could change it would be perfect!”
Please understand a love relationship with a narcissist is merely an illusion, it was never real, and it is never going to be.
I hope this article had helped you get clear, and realise what was really taking place when you met the narcissist, and how to be very clear about people who use love bombing on you in the future.
I would love to hear your comments about this article, and I would also appreciate it very much if you pass this information on to help people avoid narcissists in the future.
With this article, I have no intention of stigmatising bi-sexual people. Narcissists come in all sizes.
Fortunately, they are exceptions, also among the bisexuals. Although this is often the label that they ultimately give themselves, you could expect that the number of narcissists is high among bisexuals and transgender people.
I hope my answers to people’s specific trapped feelings have helped grant you hope that there is a way to be released and liberated.
A way to be emancipated from who you were being into Who You Really Are.
As you have probably understood – the answer is the same answer each time.
We have to be-come the change we seek.
Because when we “be” it, then it will “come.”
That is the key to your life …
Do you have questions, suggestions or comments?
I’d be happy to answer.
On December 19th and 20th Melanie Tonia Evans is hosting the You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse event.
This is a live on-line Premiere Global Healing workshop for anyone suffering abuse from a spouse, partner, family member, friend, boss, colleague or other individual.
This event is relevant for you, no matter your gender or age, how long ago you separated from this person, and even if they are still in your life.
Here’s a summary of what will be covered during the workshop:
- How to become crystal clear if the person you are dealing with IS abusive.
- The #1 factor that determines if they are capable of change.
- How to know the most common personality traits in YOU that make you a target for narcissists and how to stop attracting abusers in the future.
- The 6 reasons why MOST people don’t recover from abuse (this won’t be you after this workshop!)
- How to empower yourself to deal with a narcissist in difficult situations such as co-parenting, custody battles, divorce settlements and other legal/business deals.
- How to heal from trauma symptoms such as C-PTSD, anxiety, depression and fibromyalgia and live free of them once and for all.
This event not only aims to help you break free and heal from any abusive situation, but also teaches you how to create a new and empowered life that is no longer affected by toxic people.
If you have been through this type of relationship, I can highly recommend you take part in this all-day healing event. Let Melanie teach you how to shift from being a “victim of abuse” to becoming a “Thriver from abuse” in a way that is easy to understand and immediately applicable to your life.
I know Melanie’s work and what she will be sharing is THE most cutting-edge and impactful information on healing from toxic and abusive relationships.
It is Melanie’s deep understanding of the trauma inflicted by narcissists that fuels her passion to help as many people as possible to heal. And Melanie’s wisdom and healing processes have helped so many people recover their lives and move past mere surviving to real Thriving.
This is a rare opportunity for you to learn directly from a trusted colleague who is a renowned abuse recovery expert.
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PLUS so much more…
Johan and Annemie Persyn-Declercq
P.S. Melanie has told me that she also has some exciting bonuses for you as well! After purchasing your ticket you will get immediate access to the following:
The “50 Traits of a Narcissist Checklist” so you can find out whether or not you are dealing with a narcissist.
Plus an exclusive 35-minute video training called “The 6 Mistakes That People Make When Recovering From Abuse” which provides an excellent starting point to your healing journey.
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