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Gedwongen vergeving door dader en handlangers?

Dikwijls in een zelfontwikkelingscursus word je aangemoedigd om het goed te maken (herconcile) met familie en mensen dicht bij hen die je in het verleden gekwetst hebben of waar je problemen mee had. Ze zeggen dat deze “vergeving” een onderdeel is van het heling en jouw groei proces. Hoewel het goedmaken of herstellen van relaties […]

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Forgiveness Step 12: Ending or Renewing the Relationship

The final step in Monbourquette’s forgiveness model involves a free choice: you can renew or…end the relationship.The advance word ‘frames this twelve-part series ‘ Growing together towards a new beginning ‘. We are stuck “All that talk about forgiveness is pretty nice, but if you’re hurt, it’s no use,” the woman said.The attendant carefully asked […]

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Step 9: Knowing that you are worthy of forgiveness and have already been forgiven

How do you keep relationships open in your family? In this way, for Monbourquette, we take the ninth of twelve steps in forgiveness. We are stuck ‘I don’t think I’ll be coming to the growth group in forgiveness anymore,’ says Jeanine ( ° ). She struggles to keep her voice quiet.‘I have taken all the steps. I have decided not […]

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Forgiveness ~ Step 11: Opening to Grace

How can we open ourselves to the experience of a love that heals and that is infinitely greater than our guilt and our love? We are stuck Geert was one of the most popular participants of the growth group.His great enthusiasm, friendliness and helpfulness created a warm atmosphere in the group. His sense of humor made […]

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Forgiveness ~ Step 5: Accepting Your Anger and Retaliation

In this way, for Monbourquette, we take the fifth of twelve steps in forgiveness. How do you keep relationships open in your family? We are stuck ‘No, of course I’m not mad at her’, replies Saskia ( ° ) to her husband’s question. “I understand how difficult it is for Mom right now. She and Dad have been together for […]

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Forgiveness ~ Step 6: Forgive Yourself

How do you keep relationships open in your family? We set out in the sixth of twelve steps in the forgiveness of Monbourquette. We are stuck It stays quiet in the car for a long time.Eveline and Merlijn ( ° ) have just left their eight-year-old son in the hospital. He is out of danger, but doctors could not […]