If you feel in the short term love there is a good chance you meet a beautiful narcissist.

The question on so many people’s lips is:

“How do I know when I am ready to date again?”

After narcissistic abuse, naturally, you may feel terrified about putting yourself out there.

Why wouldn’t you?

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There is no way KNOWN any of us ever want to run the risk of being with another narcissist.

Even after doing a lot of inner work, you may not be 100% sure that you are ready.

Maybe you are not sure HOW to get ready.

Maybe it’s years since you dated, or perhaps you never even really dated and don’t know how to do it successfully.

I certainly didn’t until I learned how to!

Contemplating whether or not you are ready to date may bring up all sorts of questions, such as:

Is it when I am no longer feeling the trauma?

Is it when I am over the previous lover?

Is it when I believe I know enough about narcissists never to get with another one again?

Even when I think I am ready, how on earth am I going to keep myself narc proof?

How on earth are you going to keep yourself being positive, healthy and sane enough to keep going until I meet the right person?

I want to cut through all the confusion for you to get clear on what it looks like to date again.

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I’d love to help you achieve to date in confidence and truth.

You want to be able to meet awesome healthy people!

The first step is to sign up to the English 16-day free course, which includes a ton of free resources, as well as a workshop with Melanie.

On the workshop and in the NARP program, you will experience the subconscious reprogramming super-tool Quanta Freedom Healing.

Quantum Freedom Healing fast-tracks healing from abuse more than anything else I know.

You find the link at the end of the page.

And, as always, I look forward to having a discussion with you below about this topic!

I do hope this video has helped.

If you know, it’s time to get started on the realising and healing of your painful Inner Love Code,

I can help you powerfully with your first step to generating a beloved mate.

Click the link to the Narp program or if you are only Dutch-speaking to the 21 days program at the end of the page.

You may start a conversation with me on Facebook.

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Also, please share with your communities so that we can help people awaken to these truths.

As always, I am much looking forward to answering your comments and questions below.

Questions and comments? I love to answer.

As well as a private Facebook group so you can connect with me, my team and the other Thrive members as we go on this 10-week journey toward incredible healing and Thriving together!

Click here to learn all about Thrive and find out how you can register

We have been working soooooooo hard (as we love to do for you!) over the last few months putting all of this together and we’re so incredibly excited to share Thrive with you. 

We have packed an enormous amount of value in this program and put it together in a way that will make this 10-week experience unbelievable… 

You will shift the “unshiftable” …

Release the “unforgivable”, “unliveable” and “unsustainable”.

And leave your breakdowns behind in the dust to access your new and true REAL YOU breakthroughs!

I know you won’t recognise yourself once you’ve completed the Thrive Membership Program.

Whether you are currently at 2 out of 10, 6 out of 10 or even 9 out of 10 in achieving your Thriver Status in your healing journey, me and my wonderful team will support you, encourage and inspire you, and keep you on track to surge ahead as you progress through the workshops and healing exercises in this program.

I am a really strong believer in the power of group energy healing, and if you have participated in a workshop with me when we have hundreds of people all clearing out our dense trauma at the same time, you will know that the power and relief felt during these experiences is truly indescribable. 

So what can you expect to get out of Thrive? 

We designed the Thrive Membership Program to focus on the 6 key areas that we see universally result in successful recoveries.

Meaning when you learn how to do these things you become a Thriver!

So what are they?

#1 Freedom From Trauma: Release the residual trauma from the narcissistic relationship, including missing the narcissist or anything that is keeping you stuck and not moving forward.

#2 Healing Abuse Symptoms: Overcome abuse symptoms such as PTSD, fibromyalgia, agoraphobia, depression, etc. with targeted healing directly on your subconscious programs.

# 3 Become Narcissist Proof: Achieve a state where narcissists are no longer your reality – meaning you are repelled and impervious to them rather than susceptible to them.

#4 Attract Supporting & Loving Souls: Develop your relationship code so that you become a magnet for supportive, conscious and caring people – a far cry from narcissists!

#5 Become A Boundary Boss: Learn how to make boundary setting an integral part of your life – people will be asking you for tips on boundary setting!

#6 Smashing Self-Sabotage: Establish your Thriver Life and learn how to let go of unhealthy habits like junk food, smoking, drinking, procrastination and other self-avoiding and self-sabotaging habits or patterns much more easily.

Can you feel the evolution you will experience over 10-weeks if you decide to join Thrive?

I hope you feel it, as much as I know that it’s going to be amazing. 🙂 

Click here to register my spot for Thrive.

The Thrive Membership Program kicks off on May 1st and finishes on June 10th. In case you miss anything you will receive all your recordings, exercises, and workshop material in your member’s area, so it’s ok if you can’t make every single workshop.

We are capping the group numbers to ensure the group size is right for this format. So please, check out Thrive, and if you feel drawn to be a part of this program sign up soon to avoid missing out.

I can’t wait to join you in these sessions! It’s my favourite thing to do. 😁

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